Somehow, Glenn and I found ourselves in Hawaii recently.
A month or so ago we sat slumped in our living room chairs, staring mindlessly at our iPads after a long day at work. It was dark, cold and rainy. Again. “I want to go on a trip,” Glenn suddenly proclaimed. “Me too!!” I replied.
We haven’t traveled much recently and I think we were both feeling the effects.
We found ourselves in this situation for a couple of reasons. First, following our big 6-month long trip around the world, we had the desire to stay put for a bit and reconnect with our “old lives.” Second, because of that trip, we had no more money or vacation! And lastly, and most importantly, I didn’t want to stray too far from my mother as she fought to eek out just a little more time before cancer took her life.
We quickly decided to find someplace warmer, drier and brighter for a long weekend. We sifted through our various options (Arizona? Mexico?) and settled on Hawaii – a decidedly odd choice as we tend to avoid hot sun, beaches and tourists, especially when they have children in tow. Hawaii has all of those things in spades!
It felt good to be traveling again.
Both Glenn and I became nostalgic as we packed up the same gear we traveled the world with. The same well-worn hats, shorts and water bottles found themselves snuggly packed into the same spots, in the same bags. We laughed as we packed many of the same clothes from our big trip, still sporting the colored yarn the laundry services in Ecuador used to keep track of our things.
At one point, two miles in on a very muddy hike in Hawaii, a woman earnestly offered me good money to buy my hiking poles. “She’s traveled to five continents with those poles. She’d part with me long before she’d part with them,” Glenn told her.
It felt good to be adventuring again.
We had plane tickets, a hotel room and a rental car. Beyond that, we arrived in Hawaii with absolutely no plans. When we first set out on our trip around the world a couple of years ago I had a hard time “going with the flow.” I liked to have all of the logistics worked out well in advance. I could tell you two-months out where were we going, how we were getting there, where were we staying, and what we were going to be doing. By the end of our 6-month trip I was at the other end of the spectrum. I’d often forget to figure out important logistics…like the fact that we might need Visas to get into Australia (whoops!), or that we might want to research how best to get from our hotel to the Bangkok airport the following morning.
So, we arrived in Hawaii with our trusted gear, smiles on our faces and no idea of how we were going to fill our time. Each morning we’d check the weather report (which was pointless because it changed by the hour), pick a direction and see what happened. We often fell into that sort of “trust the universe” sort of travelling while on our big trip – it is not a natural space for me to operate in, but it sure is lovely when it happens. I was thrilled to find we could shift gears into that sort of travel again with ease.
It felt good to be physically active again.
Over the last several years I have worked to lead a healthier lifestyle – which is what much of this blog is about. But, it seems that since my mother passed away I’ve found myself struggling to do much of anything in terms of physical activity and my fitness level has all but fallen completely away. In December I had the bright idea to run a half-marathon. I’ve probably run over a dozen half-marathons since I’ve started running…never fast, never pretty, but almost always fun (except when they aren’t!).
I hadn’t been running much, and certainly hadn’t been putting in the miles needed to pull off a half-marathon. But, like an idiot, I did it anyhow and really screwed up my knees in the process. For months I’ve barely been able to walk more than a mile, much less run. I’ve been doing massage therapy and strengthening exercises to try to right the wrongs I did to my knees and they’ve been getting better – VERY slowly. It’s been both physically and emotionally draining to be limited in this way. In Hawaii I found I was able to do hard hikes, and even a 5-mile run, without much knee pain at all. Yay!
It felt good to be eating healthy again.
Over the past two years I have been struggling to keep off the weight I’d lost. Study after study finds that maintaining weight loss after five years is almost impossible. Everyone gains it back…in fact ~97% gain it back after just three years! For some reason I was naïve enough to think I was destined to be one of the other 3%. Losing 130 pounds is a big accomplishment and eventually I got too cocky thinking I could just “wing it” and not follow a program.
I had purposely gotten rid of all of my larger sized clothes, in part to ensure that if I found myself in this situation I wouldn’t be able to just pull them out of the closet and keep going. Month after month I kept trying to eat better and get back on top of it by trying special diets like The Whole 30, or more often the “I’ll just eat this one cookie instead of two” diet plan. But, it just wasn’t working. Tick, tick, tick…one more pound, one more pound, one more pound. I’m currently up almost 30 pounds.
A few weeks ago I looked at Glenn and said, “I lost a ton of weight on Weight Watchers. Why the hell aren’t I doing that?” Weight Watchers works for me. It provides me with the structure, and flexibility, I need to stay on track. So, I went back and started up my membership again – and it’s working. In Hawaii I was able to stay out of the “I’m on vacation, I can eat what I want” mentality – mostly. Regardless of what the scale might say, being in control of my food choices again feels amazing.
Glenn, travel, adventure, fitness and healthy eating…these things matter to me and make me happy. Climbing back in the saddle again (cue the Aerosmith music…or Gene Autry I guess, depending on your style) and reconnecting with those things on a somewhat impromptu trip to Hawaii was just what I needed!
Nāpali Coast and Kalalau Trail
Waimea Canyon
Glass Beach
On the advice of a friend we swung by a tiny little beach in an industrial area of Port Allen. The beach, made of tiny pieces of sea smoothed glass, was interesting – but the main point of our visit was to see the McBryde Sugar Plantation Cemetery. The cemetery contains the graves of Chinese and Japanese sugar plantation workers from the late 1800 and early 1900s. The headstones were beautiful.
Beautiful Hawaii Scenery
We got to see and experience a wide variety of landscapes as we hiked our way across the island.
Michele, it was good to hear from you and get your travel report. Randy and I have enjoyed our trips to Kauai and your pictures bring back many fun memories. For some reason we went to Maui last month. It was much too crowded for our liking. We did a lot of walking. I’m sorry to hear that your body is not showing an appreciation of all the hard work you did to get in shape. I have full confidence that you will return to your fit condition. Your report of problems following your half marathon though have caused my to think twice, or more, about the wisdom of my doing one this spring. I have been enjoying both yoga and swimming and that might be what is best for me at this stage.
Take care, Gwen
Thanks Gwen! I think in my case I had only been running maybe 6 miles a week TOTAL! So, that definitely didn’t put my body in the place to do the long mileage of the half without some consequences. Lesson learned! Not it’s time for the gradual rebuilding. I’m glad you are doing well!